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Why Expats In Singapore Prefer Escorts Over Other Types Of Dates

While this is going to be a more controversial post, I know that many of John’s friends actually have engaged Singaporean escorts.

In fact, it seems to be pretty commonplace among expats in Singapore.

John was originally going to write about this article instead, however, I decided to write it instead.

This is because I could not understand why so many expats look for social escorts!

However, after really thinking about it, I start to truly understand the allure of escorts for expats in particular.

Ease of meeting girls

It is really easy to meet a local girl in this way. While it can be very expensive, and controversial for some, truth is that it is easy. If you are a busy expat in Singapore, you probably do not have the time for the local bars or clubs. What is the best way for a career man like you then? Perhaps escorts!

Social escorts are open to meeting much older man usually

Expats in Singapore are usually older, and in their mid 30s onward generally. So this basically means that dating girls in the normal way can cause some issues. This is because Singaporean girls are generally not keen on dating someone who is 10 to 30 years older than them.

Fortunately, social escorts are very open minded! That is probably partly why they are one anyway.

No strings attached – suited for expats in Singapore only for a short period of time

Most expats are only going to be in Singapore for several years at most. Most of them then move to another country to continue working or travel back to their home country. This means that only no strings attached relationships are truly viable for the high roller expats. Whether you are a Vice President or a CEO, a no strings attached relationship is definitely more suitable if you are only in Singapore for a short time.

This is especially the case because many girls in Singapore are long term minded, and will not go out on dates at all if you are going to be here only for the short term.

So why not maximize your business time and fun experience in the evenings or night with social escorts? It simply is the sensible choice!

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Why Are There Men In Singapore Who Find Social Escorts?

There are many reasons why there are men who search for social escorts in Singapore from a local escort agency. Some of them are single, some are attached, and others may even be married.

Here are some of the reasons why single Singaporean men look for escorts:

No time to date the traditional way

First of all, many of these men are successful career men who do not have the time to date ‘normally’ like most other people in the population. They are usually highly successful surgeons, business owners, bankers or lawyers who work crazy hours. While they may be financially successful, they usually do not have time for a social life and put all their time and hours into their work or career. As a result, they are not able to find and easily meet girls to date in a social situation such as a friend outing, or perhaps even a workplace romance. They spend nearly all their waking hours working and then spend extravagant sums of money on social escorts or sugar dating to make up for it.

However, many of these single men still intend to remain single for a long time. Thus, without plans for marriage in the short or middle term, these men turn to short term dating alternatives with hot Singaporean women through places like escort agencies or even sugar baby websites.

Never want to get married

Second of all, more men in Singapore are choosing to never get married. As a result of this, they prefer only dating no strings attached style – for example meeting social escorts. They are actually doing girls a favour if they do not want to get married. Since they are not stringing along any girl when they have zero intention of ever getting married, even in the long term, I do not think it is a big issue at all.

Lack social skills when it comes to interactions with ladies

Third of all, some men are single not because they are poor or ugly or unattractive. Some of them are single just because they are simply lacking some social interaction skills – with girls! They may have lots of guy buddies, but not so many friends of the fairer sex. Some of these Singaporean men also tend to have been from single gender boys only schools in Singapore during their younger years.

Here are some reasons why married men may look for escorts in Singapore (warning: controversial):

Loveless marriage

Firstly, some men in Singapore are unfortunately separated from their wives but legally married together in a loveless marriage because of their children. Perhaps their wives also have boyfriends outside. However, most men in such a situation will not look for a potential second wife, due to concern about what their children will think. Also, they usually have no intention of looking forĀ  long term relationship when their first one ended so badly.

Bored with the marriage

The second possible reason is that the men are bored with their relationship. Remember, I said this part of the article was going to be controversial! Some men (and women) grow bored of a marriage, if they do not work hard on maintaining the relationship. Therefore, some of these men look for beautiful women – social escorts in Singapore.

Some men are just flirts

Third of all, some men are just always flirts. There will always be men who are unable to remain loyal to any one girl. Unfortunately, they happened to get married in the past, and so continue their flirtatious ways.

So there you go! The above are some of the main reasons why single and married men date and look for social escorts in Singapore.

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